You are getting close, the age is about right and the RAF connection is correct. Perhaps if I tell you that in the Asian Nations Cup he refereed in the (then) newly built Taipei Stadium in 1956 as the stadium's opening game and the away team were South Korea. I think that you will have to depart from Wikipedia to find him.
So not Capt C H Dennis who had a couple of seasons on the FL referees list from 1958 whilst based at South Merstham?